Сделал еще раз netstat -o уже с включенным денвером
C:\>netstat -o
Активные подключения
Имя Локальный адрес Внешний адрес Состояние PID
TCP ideal2:http localhost:1040 TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:http localhost:1047 TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1045 localhost:http TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1048 localhost:3306 TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1053 localhost:http TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1058 localhost:http TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1059 localhost:http TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:3306 localhost:1041 TIME_WAIT 0
TCP ideal2:1026 sergey.mshome.net:7643 ESTABLISHED 316
TCP ideal2:1069 192.168.0.44:netbios-ssn TIME_WAIT 0
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добавлено через 8 минут
сделал netstat -a на сервере:
C:\>netstat -a
Активные подключения
Имя Локальный адрес Внешний адрес Состояние
TCP ideal2:epmap ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:microsoft-ds ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:2869 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:4899 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:smtp ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:http ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2

op3 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:https ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:1030 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:3306 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:8080 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:47900 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:https ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:8648 ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:netbios-ssn ideal2:0 LISTENING
TCP ideal2:netbios-ssn 192.168.0.44:4268 ESTABLISHED
TCP ideal2:1070 ns.km30216.keymachine.de:47901 ESTABLISHED
TCP ideal2:1104 sergey.mshome.net:7643 ESTABLISHED
TCP ideal2:kpop sergey.mshome.net:2869 ESTABLISHED
TCP ideal2:1111 sergey.mshome.net:2869 ESTABLISHED
UDP ideal2:microsoft-ds *:*
UDP ideal2:isakmp *:*
UDP ideal2:1042 *:*
UDP ideal2:1049 *:*
UDP ideal2:4500 *:*
UDP ideal2:ntp *:*
UDP ideal2:1110 *:*
UDP ideal2:1900 *:*
UDP ideal2:ntp *:*
UDP ideal2:netbios-ns *:*
UDP ideal2:netbios-dgm *:*
UDP ideal2:1900 *:*
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